Sometimes, after 20 years of marriage, they realize that they too are “not the same anymore.” Even this can happen, as anything can happen in this day and age. It is not news that after 20 years of marriage, people even decide to get divorced and everyone goes their separate ways.
It is quite possible that they both don\’t look for someone else because they have gotten over something and don\’t want a new person, but it is also quite possible that at least one of them decides to find someone new. For example, someone who still has energy and would have no problem doing anything with that person.
The fact that the relationship in question is no longer the same is something that people can understand more quickly, but can also understand more slowly. Unfortunately, this is often the case, often in situations where people come to believe that the relationship in question is no longer the same as it was and that it is not appropriate to stay in that relationship any longer.
People are surely surprised when they say they want a divorce after 20 years of marriage, but it is really common these days.
In the past, getting divorced was not so easy, and often not even possible. It was definitely different than it is now.
Unfortunately, it is really possible for anyone to come to the conclusion that a given relationship is no longer appropriate and that it is best for two people to separate and pursue what they want to pursue.
Men in particular often have the idea that a relationship is no longer what it used to be and is no longer fulfilling. This is especially true of men around the age of 50. Many men begin to feel that they are still young and that it is best for them to have a younger partner with whom they can experience many things, rather than someone their own age.
It is common for two people to divorce in search of a third partner. This third partner is often a young woman with whom the man has decided to start something.
Unfortunately, this is the way it is now. Many may think it is sad, and indeed it is.
But each man must decide what is best for him.